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D: I was happily married for 22 years, and never cheated on my wife. 15 years ago, she ran off with a guy (incidentally, he had a full head of hair!). I was deeply hurt! A year later, I got into the swinging which then led me eventually to some amateur porn acting, and Nina Hartley! My Ex did not marry the guy. She lives in Tucson, while I live in San Diego. We talk often on the phone and via email as both parents/grandparents, and as friends. I don't hold any grudges about what she did, I am very happy being a porn star, and I have no intentions of a reconciliation. She knows what I do, but prefers to avoid any reference to it. We are friends who get together for certain holidays with the kids, and we sometimes stay overnight at each other's place---we do not have a sexual relationship (though our married sex life was fantastic!).

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