In the name of Allah, most merciful, call out the name of the devil and he shall appear.
I wouldn't take this case. It appears Robbye has gotten some terrible advice and there are very few quick-fixes available (Dan's idea to start fresh is probably the best). Also, if there's a dispute regarding monies paid, signing over a check from a third party was just about the worst way to go about making good on the debt. Girlie, start living with one thing in mind: for everything you do, leave a paper trail. Sequestering her property over the matter isn't legal and they will eventually be forced to hand it over, if there's no mitigating paperwork to the contrary. It's just that she's going to have to pay through the nose for an attorney to get that far. What they're doing by blanking the front page, however, is quite possibly damaging the value of the property. If all things are as they appear (which they most likely are not), she would be able to probably recoup more money in damages from that than she would if they had simply continued accepting new members.
However, the alleged transvestite and his paramour or agent on this board have now given two separate answers as to why they will not transfer over the domains: a.) that she owes money; b.) that she must transfer over the website's members. I'd be inclined to believe, and I'd like to find a judge that wouldn't agree with me, that they're simply trying to make it as difficult as possible.
Robbye, in the absence of a legal strategy, is simply making herself a nuissance in return.
So you have two parties both trying to out-disgust and out-frustrate the other one.
Welcome to the world of family law.
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