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I hate to be mean but there is such a gargantuan difference in the quality of the writing between those defending Holly and Kaiser Sauze. One guy spells and punctuates correctly and writes clearly (showing he thinks clearly). I like Cassandra and Da Burglar and I don't want to lose their good will, but I would not want them defending me in such slipshod writing. Holly is a grammar and spelling snob. I adore that about her. I know she loves the defense of her, but she must be appalled at the abuse of the English language (DB, Cassandra, you know there's nothing personal in my point).



I went back and re-read both my own and cassandra's posts, and, gee whiz, I didnt think the writing was all that 'slipshod', for XPT anyway. Some would say it has to be somewhat slipshod in order for people that visit here to understand it....

I admit, I am not thinking clearly (as I am often not when it comes to porn), but usually I can just type my way through it...and arrive at something that makes sense. I defended Holly because I like her and, as far as pornographers go, she is seemingly 'less evil' and more concerned with the girls' welfare than most. But I also agreed with a lot of what Kaiser said (I just felt it harsh to single out Holly so specifically, especially on his first post)...Hell I even placed myself at the top of the "Evil" Porn Triad (as a consumer/viewer of porn & sex...)

But that is precisely my Point about Porn: It is an enigma, a contradiction, a two sided coin:

Porn depicts intimate acts done in the most non-intimate way and settings; it depicts pleasure and yet is full of pain and heartache; I enjoy much of what I see and jerk off to, but I also sometimes feel very empty and foolish for doing so. The Angel on my right shoulder tells me it is immoral, but the devil with his dick in his hand standing on my left shoulder rationalizes "Relax, whack away, you are not actually fucking these girls yourself, its all in your head..." Both the Devil and the Angel are correct...It's a huge GRAY area...and I already alluded to Holly figuratively representing something of an enigma in my Little Red Riding Hood/She-wolf analogy.

I really intended this thread to discuss what I realized would be a tough situation to deal with, namely, If I had a relationship with a porn starlet, and I actually did something like cum inside of her during intercourse, I would be denied (robbed) of much of the intimacy typically associated with this act because thousands of men around the world would be viewing (and jerking off to) that VERY same event with my would-be porn starlet partner. Is Holly, or the other pornographers, primarily responsible for that, or is my porn partner?
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