I am interested in moral dilemmas's, the human condition etc. Porn to me is a petri dish of such study. At this point I really only enjoy it as such.
I was raised in a liberal, non denominational environment. In short, this is not about god/your soul/my soul. I am not even entirely sure any of those things exist.
Now a question for you. If you ever do have a child, especially a daughter. Would you encourage her to become a performer? I am very interested in your answer.
that you even view porn as a "moral dilemma" is indicative of your problem with assigning blame where none needs be assigned. there will always be girls who want attention and money, and there will always be men who want girls. that a former pornstar feels "cheated" when she is no longer wanted isn't bad or wrong in itself because the girl's value lies solely in how attractive she is. when she is discarded, it is not a statement of her worthlessness but of her lack of relevance in an industry which demands youth and beauty; one in which few 'legends' are ever created.
it is the girl's, and not holly's, sole responsibility to make herself into a person who isn't defined by her looks and subsequent popularity in an admittedly shallow industry. that some of these girls made the decision to forego education so that they didn't have to strive in the face of adversity (feeding children, what have you) is more a testament to the reality of their own lack of tenacity than a hypothetical gun.