dude, i'm going out on a rare, rare limb defending adt.

does she do a job where it matters if she did some drugs to 21?

i don't think it does.

if you're getting all fucked up at 35-40, it's a cause for alarm. many of us have made mistakes at 21 and later. they'll kick your ass if you keep them up and you'll wander around leaning into walls and seeing weird shit much later than your late 20's, but honestly, it's youthful indiscretion until that.