Mr or Ms. Blowme, if you want to swing the momentum here(which is relatively easy since we spend all day looking for dirt and reasons to ridicule each other)you will need to pull the trigger on something more than someone's personal id(which the deleting of is policy around here) and some edited emails. If what you say is true, a little proof or collaboration shouldn't be hard to do.
We also have another saying around here that might help.
Pics or it didn't happen....