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yup.

in all honesty, i believe him over christie. that's just me. the picture he painted was just too vivid, to imbued with the essence of pornchick to be made-up.



I'm torn. I'd love to beat AC over the head with this, but like you I find it all too believable. This is a trick that mentally unstable chicks quite commonly pull. I had the same thing happen to me, on a grander scale than what AC alleges here. A chick I used to work with decided I was the perfect man to confide all her deepest, most private stuff in. Like being sexually abused as a child, having an abortion when she was 18 followed by a nervous breakdown, and far too much information about the abusive relationship she was in with a guy who also worked in our department. I never asked for any of it, fuck knows why but she picked me as the person to unload it all on and I was just too soft-hearted to tell her to shut up and go away. This went on for months, untill I moved into a different job and further contact became impractical. (He had a tight grip on her social life.)

Years later she finally split with the loser and we got back in contact. Saw each other a few times, plenty of calls went back and forth, just on a friendly basis but my point is that it was clearly two-way. If it was ever one-way it was on her side - back at the start, when because of circumstances I didn't really want to know. Then suddenly, I can't get hold of her. When I finally do she's like "You don't know me, we were never friends" and accuses me of stalking her. This is on the basis that I made repeated attempts to call her one night after she decided she didn't want to see me any more. Now bear in mind, she hadn't told me that I was persona non grata, she'd just made that decision (never did explain why), but somehow my trying again later when she hadn't answered before suddenly constituted stalking.

Now this girl wasn't a porn star, but I often recognise hints of the same mentality in a lot of the chicks in porn today. It's like a kind of syndrome:

1.) Projecting a ditzy, likeable persona that is just a cover for their wretched, self-loathing true selves.
2.) Seeking out relationships with abusive men.
3.) Using "nice", sympathetic guys who are willing to listen as emotional crutches, then discarding them on a whim.

Regarding 3), when they know they've fucked you over, they don't want to face you. Using the "stalker" defense is the perfect way to get a guy to back off. Now the situation here does obviously differ in several ways. I'm not saying that any of this applies to Christie - I don't know her, but I find AC's story believable although not substantiated.

Anyway, forget all that, Christie is telling the truth and AC is a lying stalker/potential serial killer. It's funnier that way...
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