It is evident that you did not comprehend the posting. It was not directed to you specifically. It might, in fact, apply to most of us that watch porn. My point was simple and was intended to inspire "introspective" thinking. It appears you took some of the metaphors personally. I used the phrase "interactive silence" as to suggest that we ALL engage. I am happy to hear that three more postings are forthcoming....my heart palpitates at the thought.