I have often heard the argument/justification that pornography leads to more sexual awareness and can foster a healthier more fulfilling sex life between couples, as well as cement the overall bond of intimacy in general between man & woman. Personally, I don't get it...

Take Cumfarting and swallowing for example. What fork in the road in any relationship will be avoided or facilitated into a correct choice by a couple doing this act?

Your relationship with your wife/girlfriend/secretary/22 yr old hot intern is on the rocks, the sparks are gone and you both can't stand the way each other eats soup (one of you sips silently, the other slurps.) Then it hits you..."Honey, this relationship is worth fighting for, I don't want to chuck it without doing everything possible to save it...I love you, at least I think I do...let me ejaculate into your anus and then watch intently as you poop it into the soup bowl from which I can't stand to see/hear you eat...come, it will heal our rift, cement our relationship and bond us forever..."

I mean, what the hell? Will Luke & Holly use this "expression of their human sexuality" when their Billy Joel "Uptown Girl"-meets-Outback-Rabbi-Jack-esque relationship is in the throes of Viagra induced Angina? More importantly, will they film it so as to provide more therapy for the rest of us?

Your point is well taken.

There's a lot of lies like this in porn. You go on AVN (Which I try never to do) and you read those idiot columns written by idiot people sometimes. They always take about hedonism and the joy of sex.

Excuse me...these are people who are fucking for money. Not only are they fucking for money, they are fucking people they wouldn't otherwise fuck...for money. If I'm wrong, and every porn chick really wants to fuck the guy she's fucking on camera, explain Rodney Moore.

Which means it's about money. It's not about sex...it's not about relationships or love or anything more noble than money.It's about the demand of people who want to see fucking on their TV or computer monitor, and the supply which is provided in the interest of financial gain.

And there's nothing wrong with doing things for money. I've done lots of things I wouldn't have done for free. No one goes to the office for free...ever. It's only degrading when one besmirches themselves by lying about it.

I'll have a go.

For the small segment of the population who are unnaturally squeamish about sexual intimacy, watching an attractive, semi-literate middle-class white girl get repeatedly sodomized by Brazillian trannies who deposit loads in her ass (followed by her shitting it into a martini glass and drinking it) is a way to demystify the sexual acts and make normal (normal?) sexual activity seem less obscene.

In the alternative, by masturbating furiously to gag-factor and Max Hardcore movies, my desire to forcibly sodomize "Lisa", the neighbour down the hall, abates temporarily, thus allowing me to again become a loving husband, father and contributing member of society (at least until Lisa where's that top I like again )

Have a good weekend everyone!

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I would say that demystifying sexual acts isn't a good thing. Who wants sex without mystery? I don't. Mystery brings with it curiousity, enhanced excitement, greater incentive...Screw demystification.

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Your desire to forcibly sodomize anyone won't go away just because you masterbate. Rape isn't about being horny. Rape is based in power. That's why 80 year old women get raped.

Now, as to whether or not watching Max Hardcore's power over his victim of the week is a vicarious way to fulfill one's own power fantasies...that I'd probably agree with.

But personally...I'd rather go to therapy and work out my issues before spending $49.95 apiece watching that small-dicked pussy hater go to work. Has anyone ever seen him fuck a pussy? Ever?

Is he gay?

I'm not a Methodist, nor even a Christian, nor even religious, and I wont watch anal or gagging.