Steph isn't one for humor, so I doubt she posted a pic of some effete douchebag as a joke. Who knows?
There is a thread there where people post pic of themselves, and Tony posted ones that obscure his face. In one, he was filming two gays fucking with a face-hiding videocamera on his shoulder. The gay porn thing would fit with the "emo" thing, which can be taken as evidence the pic is accurate. Again, I have no idea.