This is a mistake many worthless whores make: Expecting one-night stands to act like men and treat them like women. The bottom line is if Jimmy wanted to be a husband or for Ariana to be his wife, he would have married you. And Ariana, you ain't seen stressed yet! You made a huge (but common) mistake by making a baby with a man you are not married to. Jimmy is not your husband. He don't owe you nothing. I think he's doing well to buy anything for you right now...because the baby ain't even here yet! He does not have to take care of you, love you, even look at you! All he has to do is take care of the baby when it gets here. By law that is all he is responsible for. You are essentially now and going to be in the future on your own. And you are going to be on your own as a single mother. I would have hoped you thought this through and fully understood how you were going to be responsible for this baby and everything else before you got pregnant, but it seems from your actions that you didn't. You are going to have to get a job and daycare and work to support yourself. You are going to have to clean your own house, wake up at night to take care of your baby, find someone to stay with it when it is sick and you have to work, etc. Rather than fretting about Jimmy and what happened in the past, I think you would do well to face reality and start making some serious plans for your future that include how you are going to accomplish these things. It's probably not a bad idea to start looking around for daycare. Jimmy will have to pay half, but you will have to pay the other half. He will pay child support, which will help with diapers and formula and clothes for the baby, but you will have to do all the rest. When you accept that this is the way it is you won't feel so angry with Jimmy and the both of you can sit down and figure out what you are going to do for the child. Separate yourself and your personal needs from the needs of the baby. Figure out visitation and appropriate child support. If you can enter into an agreement outside of the Courts, it would be better for both. Once you get these porn folks in your business, they never get out and make your life hell.