Trust me, I'm definitely not one of his ex lovers, I'm male and I'm not gay. However, there is definitely speculation that he is definitely, at least, bisexual. He hates women, a lot like Ben English. There is no doubt in my mind that Everhard and some of those like him would be rapist in the "real" world. As for why do I care, because, I love porn, and I'm tired of hearing potential new girls out there not want any part of it because of some of the brutality they've seen in this business.