i'm in favor of praising the traditionally-objectionable patterns of behavior to get rid of all of the archaic fears and biases. when you establish such an open dialog through tolerance and acceptance, you'll always find more people will come forward and share their experiences.

once they've identified themselves, you can then stone them to death on a public street as the deviants they are.

seriously, even the APA's going soft on pedos and other practices that there shouldn't be debate over they're so sub-optimal and likely to fuck kids up. there is a "better" in life sometimes.