I love this thread and i hope it never goes away. Gen keep the money you owe me, i don't care. You're right, you're young, do what you want to do but remember that if you promise to show up for a shoot to follow through , i can understand its your birthday and a big one at 21 so go out and do it all, fuck if i or anyone else cares but you also have to understand that a handful of people had set up a shoot that you had promised to show up to, try and put yourself in their position, that you are hanging around for a whole day waiting for someone to show up and its costing you money, its not the best feeling in the world at the very least call the day before to say you know i don't think i will be up for it tomorrow. Give a heads up.