I’d hesitate to claim to be “friends” with someone I’d never met, indeed someone I’d never even spoken to. Almost all of my interaction with Kami has been in posts, in a porn forum no less!

If the question is “friendly”, sure. Were I to be in Pittsburgh at the same time as Kami I’d see if she was busy and arrange my travel plans to take her out to Carl’s Jr. if it made sense. There are a couple of pornstars I consider myself friendly with in that respect.

What you need to remember is that the person you see on your TV screen is largely the product of what you “see” – your expectations and imagination – and acting on her part, trying to be what the fans want. The real Kami is her own person and may not be what you expect; quite a few fans seem to have a problem understanding the difference between reality and what they see on a TV. As long as you don’t try to force them to be who you expect or conform to what you think is OK/gross then it’ll be fine.

In trying to become “friends” it’s important to understand what they like. A cheap way to curry favor is to be first to post a new boxcover, like this: