i thought i'd made the many-partners thing kinda understood, i even threw in swinging as something in the "dangerous" league as seeing prostitutes. i should have been more explicit--yes, monogamy is a totally different ballgame in terms of exposure. the point was, sex isn't without some gravity--fucking lots of people who have fucked hundreds of people will leave you with an itchy, recurring rash as the best-case scenario. fuciing one person who's been tested 40 times a day is fine unless you're smartt and need to be prevented from breeding.