Would you marry an ex-porn actress?

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May not agree with whorebot about politics, but his post here is spot on for me.

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WOW - but not surprising how deluded you are. YOU DAMN RIGHT I WOULD! But only if she were not a drug-addled attention whore. ERGO - not many opportunities.

I don't care if she has a shot-out leather face or a cottage cheese ass. If she fucks like a whore on demand and helps take care of my Mom, I am golden.

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You miss the point. It isn't about the woman. It is about the people you must associate with (like them or hate them) and how it may impact your career. Don't you think you can find a woman who likes sex who didn't become a porn whore? Does every woman who didn't decide to make a porn movie hate sex?
Would you sacrifice a successful career to be with a porn whore? What about a prostitute?

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You miss the point. It isn't about the woman. It is about the people you must associate with (like them or hate them) and how it may impact your career. Don't you think you can find a woman who likes sex who didn't become a porn whore? Does every woman who didn't decide to make a porn movie hate sex?
Would you sacrifice a successful career to be with a porn whore? What about a prostitute?

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Aiyiyi-you are wrapped into the shame of sex. Oppositely, I am saying I would not veto a good relationship due to her past as a pornwhore. Her STD status would affect our relationship more significantly - because there is a reason they call me "Ass First WhoreBBot". If she still wants to shoot porn - then I would unselfishly serve as her stuntcock on Luckyfuckers.com

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I have already stated on previous posts, that I'm not one of those guys who look-down-my-nose at the same porn stars that I fantasize about. Sadly, reality is reality.

You can't have a job, or career, or life, of any significance if you are willing to have a serious relationship or marriage (as opposed to a simple "fling") with a former porn whore--let alone an active one, can you???

Please, feel free to prove me wrong. I sort of wish I was wrong.

Sadly, I know I'm not

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I kind of disagree with your "class" arguement. The beauty of living in a free society is that you're not confined to your class.

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My point was only that the pathetic parolee mopes that you see on that other thread in the cage might have more to do with the fact that Brad Pitt and JFK jr. (before he died) may not be as likely to date a porn whore as the average, recently released from prison, bukkaki mope with the stupid tattoos and the bad suit, because of social issues more than desire or attraction. Do you see this?

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As to your idea that somehow porn chicks are better/ more skilled sexually than a civvie, I think you've bought the porn fantasy that these girls are...well, "hot to trot". I would guess very few of them are.

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I never said or implied such a thing. I doubt that the average porn whore has the passion, the experience, or the skills of the average college girl who is into sex and willing to "experiment". I have dated women who fucked for free, and because they wanted to, and easily had a larger sexual appetite than me--and more than the average money grubbing, man hating porn chick as well.

The difference is that the sexual activity of the average porn whore is on display in her movies, and even if it is all an "act" it can be used as a comparison to the sexual experiences of the typical consumer. MY desires have more to do with personal attraction to a specific woman than they do to some idealized notion of a "porn whore".

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Would I? You know, the hearts wants what it wants.

Just my 2 cents.
Barry

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This post was all about what you would give up to satisfy what the heart wants. Giving up a career as Governor of South Carolina to fly to South America to fuck some whore is a bigger sacrifice than Billy Bob skipping out of his shift on the French Fry machine at McDonald's to pick up $20 hooker for a blow job, isn't it? Or are they both the same to you?

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Anyway, it got me thinking. I always figured that there is a line in society that separates the lower class thug from the upper class "YUPPIE". Anybody who would have a serious relationship with a porn star (current or former) has no prospects in life other than pimp, involved in making porno movies, drugs, or maybe manual labor. No successful, intelligent man would have a relationship with a pornstar, would they?

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I think you are both onto something and way off base. First of all, I don't see how marrying an (ex) porn star can be detrimental to your career. I haven't a clue what most of my co-workers spouses do (never met 95% of them) and they only know something about mine because I chose to tell, I could have just as easily avoided the subject completely.

Secondly it is a mistake to think that even a highly intelligent man wouldn't be interested in a porn star -- I'm guessing no one here has a clue who my avatar is, but he is a writer who was absolutely obsessed with prostitutes, some of whom had a kind of fame -- the porn stars of their day. Read Bel-Ami whose title was stolen for a porn film (and numerous straight ones, none of which I've seen) or La maison Tellier.

Last comes the element of truth: the problem isn't so much class, but it is education and interests. Most porn chicks haven't finished high school let alone college. Many are as dumb as rocks. Marrying, as opposed to screwing one of them, makes no sense. There are of course exceptions and those would be just as marriageable, or not, as anyone else.

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Only if it was Lubben.

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I would hope ONLY to smack your cock on her forehead repeatedly & remind her it’s all in the name of Jesus.

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I would be willing to marry a former PW, but the criteria and conditions would probably narrow the pool down to about three. Therefore, it is extremely unlikely that it will happen.

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I have the killer question. "Do you like reading, and discussing books together"

Wham! In porn valley that would limit me to Holly Randall.

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I think you are both onto something and way off base. First of all, I don't see how marrying an (ex) porn star can be detrimental to your career.

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It is my fault for not doing a better job of laying out the dilemma in my invented scenario.

Could you use your imagination and invent a situation (no matter how fantastical) where a fictional person (not yourself) has a job that might suffer (either because of clients, co-workers, or bosses) if they married a woman who has pornographic pictures and movies readily available on the internet?

So far nobody responding on this thread can even conceive of such a situation. Am I really so far off base? Could President Obama still have been elected if he was married to a porn actress? What if she did bestiality porn? What about your local pastor? What about the CEO of Proctor & Gamble? An FBI or CIA agent? A junior executive whose boss is a born again christian? An advertising executive whose clients include "wholesome" family values companies? An army general being considered for a fourth star? An upper class family in New England whose father is the president of the uptight country club? Anybody with a mother?

You really can't imagine a life where this sort of thing matters? Nobody else can either? It is easier to imagine getting married to a porn star than having a career or life where that would be a negative thing?

It is one thing to respond saying that to a specific person it does not matter (I can get that), but the responses from people who can't imagine how it could possibly matter to anybody are a bit unexpected.

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I think you are both onto something and way off base. First of all, I don't see how marrying an (ex) porn star can be detrimental to your career.

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It is my fault for not doing a better job of laying out the dilemma in my invented scenario.

Could you use your imagination and invent a situation (no matter how fantastical) where a fictional person (not yourself) has a job that might suffer (either because of clients, co-workers, or bosses) if they married a woman who has pornographic pictures and movies readily available on the internet?
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It is one thing to respond saying that to a specific person it does not matter (I can get that), but the responses from people who can't imagine how it could possibly matter to anybody are a bit unexpected.

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OK. I get it now. You just had it presented a different way. I can agree with this scenario. I still kind of disagree with the class issue, but I can see how certain jobs/ bosses might be problematic. I doubt my job would like it, but I guess it would be a matter of discretion. I mean, who wants to be the guy who walks into the bosses office and say "i was watching an interracial gangbang scene and so and so's wife was the guest of honor". I can see how it might cause trouble. I guess that's the decision you have to make. Can you steel yourself enough to be prepared for the day your secret comes out.

Barry

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I think you're getting close. I also suspect you are a bit smarter and more honest than the average person here.

I used to scrub toilets and mop floors and had a thousand other menial labor shit jobs I hated and I bit my fucking tongue and I did every one of them better than anybody else around me. I enlisted in the military to "escape". And I moved on.

I see a movie like "Sexy Beast" and I get a bit nostalgic and sentimental. A man is unapologetically in love with his ex-pornstar wife and happy. I pop into XPT and surf a little porn and I see pages of beautiful, sexy women who I'd love to spend a night with... I'd love to spend a life with. I think to myself, "What a silly fantasy! You know you could never be with a porn star." It makes me a bit sad and conflicted. I decide to post a new thread to discuss it and I'm met with a slightly more diplomatic version of:

"YO Doood, u be wack, everybody be luvin it if they girl was a big ole porn whore with the big titties and the tight pussie you could fuck every night and all those guys down at my parole office would have to give up mad props, yo!"

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Marriage is a archaic institution, and I don't wish to be institutionalized. You will only truely know a women when she divorces you. Then you see the succubus demon she truly is

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Not true. My ex- cunt was an evil demon (not a succubus tho...then she'd have had to have sex with me) long before we divorced. Quick example: When my dad died, I had the week off because my company gives a week's bereavement time. He died on a Tuesday and the funeral was Friday. Much had to be done. One of the days I was pretty much out of the house for the day...meeting with the preacher, the funeral director, trying to keep my mom from coming unhinged. When I got home, she asked where I'd been. I gave her a quick summary. Her reply was that she thought I was out paying bills, but that couldn't be because I never payed any bills. (towards the end money became her hammer because I wouldn't rise to her attempts to fight with me and I stopped caring that wouldn't fuck me..but she knew money and bills hit me where I lived, so it was pretty effective) On Thursday morning of that week, it became apparent to her I wasn't going to work. She asked, I told her I wasn't. "You can't tell me you're going to take this whole week off". It was that week that I realized the bith was fucking crazy and that I needed out.

Barry

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"Porn actress" is an oxymoron anyway, isn't it?

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No, Conundrum, it is not. Why would you think it was?

Do all of the performances seem so realistic to you that you could not believe that anybody could possibly be acting?

"Porn actress" is not an oxymoron it is an understatement.

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I have the killer question. "Do you like reading, and discussing books together"

Wham! In porn valley that would limit me to Holly Randall.

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we do enjoy that actually!

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"Porn actress" is an oxymoron anyway, isn't it?

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No, Conundrum, it is not. Why would you think it was?

Do all of the performances seem so realistic to you that you could not believe that anybody could possibly be acting?

"Porn actress" is not an oxymoron it is an understatement.

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cameron:

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I have the killer question. "Do you like reading, and discussing books together"

Wham! In porn valley that would limit me to Holly Randall.

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we do enjoy that actually!

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What kind of books do you and/or your partner read?

I'm sincerely (without any sarcasm) curious.

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cameron:

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I have the killer question. "Do you like reading, and discussing books together"

Wham! In porn valley that would limit me to Holly Randall.

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we do enjoy that actually!

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What kind of books do you and/or your partner read?

I'm sincerely (without any sarcasm) curious.

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For novels I like Hemingway, Updike, Garcia Marquez, and Vargas Llosa the best. For true crime, Wambaugh.

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Never got into Hemingway. Updike is good. As far as classics go...I do love Shakespeare. Cant beat the Bard!
Wambaugh huh? I think I've read him, but I'm not sure...will have to check my collection. If not, I'll check him out, thanks!

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Cameron,

Read "The Sun Also Rises" in the summer time while drunk, (preferably overseas in Spain or France) and you will get Hemmingway. Uhm, at least that is what did it for me after hating him for years as an over-rated hack writer. Then try a few selections out of "The Snows of Kilimanjaro" or "A Movables Feast" collections of short stories. I have tried "The Old Man & the Sea" a few times, but never really got it.

Updike is OK, but barely a step above whoever wrote scripts for Gilligan's Island or The Brady Bunch.

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Marriage is a archaic institution, and I don't wish to be institutionalized. You will only truely know a women when she divorces you. Then you see the succubus demon she truly is

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Not true. My ex- cunt was an evil demon (not a succubus tho...then she'd have had to have sex with me) long before we divorced. Quick example: When my dad died, I had the week off because my company gives a week's bereavement time. He died on a Tuesday and the funeral was Friday. Much had to be done. One of the days I was pretty much out of the house for the day...meeting with the preacher, the funeral director, trying to keep my mom from coming unhinged. When I got home, she asked where I'd been. I gave her a quick summary. Her reply was that she thought I was out paying bills, but that couldn't be because I never payed any bills. (towards the end money became her hammer because I wouldn't rise to her attempts to fight with me and I stopped caring that wouldn't fuck me..but she knew money and bills hit me where I lived, so it was pretty effective) On Thursday morning of that week, it became apparent to her I wasn't going to work. She asked, I told her I wasn't. "You can't tell me you're going to take this whole week off". It was that week that I realized the bith was fucking crazy and that I needed out.

Barry

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The modern day Succubus has evolved they attack and drain you on Emotional, Spiritual and Financial levels.
(P.S: sorry to hear about such a fucking hell week for you..dam must have been very stressfull)

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I'll prob regret this but I'll bite...

I'm a voracious reader. I'll read pretty much anything and go through 2-3 books a week. I'm esp. fond of crime novels, true crime and period books. (as in time period...not menstrual for those literary challenged.). My all time fav. book since I was a kid is A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith. Set in turn of the century Brooklyn.

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Thanks. Any favourite crime writers? (I don't know much about crime novels. Tom Clancy is probably not a crime novelist?)

I don't quite get the 'period books' thing. Isn't every story set in a certain period of time? Is there a specific period of time you like more than others?

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For novels I like Jeffrey Deaver and James Patterson. For true crime Ann Rule is a fav. Though I like them all.

"Period books" are usually set at a specific time and place in the past. Turn of the century Brooklyn, Victorian London, WW2 Japan, etc...

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I'll prob regret this but I'll bite...

I'm a voracious reader. I'll read pretty much anything and go through 2-3 books a week. I'm esp. fond of crime novels, true crime and period books. (as in time period...not menstrual for those literary challenged.). My all time fav. book since I was a kid is A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith. Set in turn of the century Brooklyn.

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Thanks. Any favourite crime writers? (I don't know much about crime novels. Tom Clancy is probably not a crime novelist?)

I don't quite get the 'period books' thing. Isn't every story set in a certain period of time? Is there a specific period of time you like more than others?

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For novels I like Jeffrey Deaver and James Patterson. For true crime Ann Rule is a fav. Though I like them all.

"Period books" are usually set at a specific time and place in the past. Turn of the century Brooklyn, Victorian London, WW2 Japan, etc...

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I hate Ann Rule, although her Bundy book was great. I've tried to read her stuff over the years and just find it to be yammering. When she came out with her Green River Killer book, I was done. It was all about her and how threatened she felt by him being in the same neighborhood as her.

I guess I do little fiction. I'm more a history/ current events guy. No writers I particulary favor, tho. Just whatever catches my attention.

Barry

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I'll prob regret this but I'll bite...

I'm a voracious reader. I'll read pretty much anything and go through 2-3 books a week. I'm esp. fond of crime novels, true crime and period books. (as in time period...not menstrual for those literary challenged.). My all time fav. book since I was a kid is A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith. Set in turn of the century Brooklyn.

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Thanks. Any favourite crime writers? (I don't know much about crime novels. Tom Clancy is probably not a crime novelist?)

I don't quite get the 'period books' thing. Isn't every story set in a certain period of time? Is there a specific period of time you like more than others?

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For novels I like Jeffrey Deaver and James Patterson. For true crime Ann Rule is a fav. Though I like them all.

"Period books" are usually set at a specific time and place in the past. Turn of the century Brooklyn, Victorian London, WW2 Japan, etc...

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I hate Ann Rule, although her Bundy book was great. I've tried to read her stuff over the years and just find it to be yammering. When she came out with her Green River Killer book, I was done. It was all about her and how threatened she felt by him being in the same neighborhood as her.

I guess I do little fiction. I'm more a history/ current events guy. No writers I particulary favor, tho. Just whatever catches my attention.

Barry

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I'm reading the Bundy book right now.

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cameron

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For novels I like Jeffrey Deaver and James Patterson. For true crime Ann Rule is a fav. Though I like them all.

"Period books" are usually set at a specific time and place in the past. Turn of the century Brooklyn, Victorian London, WW2 Japan, etc...

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Never heard of Ann Rule or Jeffrey Deaver. James Patterson sounds familiar (I've seen his books), but I've never read anything by him.

Thanks for the answers.

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Since then, I try to read something by Hemmingway every year, even if it is a short story.

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I was the same with Orwell. Had 1984 assigned in high school, but I couldn't appreciate it until after after school. Kind of like Disneyland when I was 12. I appreciated it much more when I was 30.

Barry

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Anyway, no book worth reading can really be appreciated by a teenager, but I think it is important to make introductions to the act and the main contributors to the field anyway.

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I must be a mutant because I fully appreciated Dune, I Sing the Body Electric, and The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy while in my teens. I also appreciated The Unbearable Lightness of Being while in my early 20s at the latest.

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It helps distract them from the fact that sexually experienced women make them feel inadequate.

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^ F- please stop !